Change is a process not an event

There are many reasons why people seek help from therapy and counselling. They might need someone to hear their story; they may want to work on a specific problem or they might need to work through distress in a safe setting. Ultimately though most people come to therapy because they want ‘something’ to change and…

When Blue Monday becomes Cheerless Tuesday

Well, did you survive it? ‘Blue Monday’; the annual mental health apocalypse that occurs on the third Monday of January? Failed resolutions, Christmas-created debt with pay-day still just out of sight, drained back-to-work-enthusiasm, and bad weather all supposedly contributed to a collective mental fug across the nation yesterday. Journalists and feature-writers, never ones to miss…

Relationship resolutions

With leftover turkey now finally disposed of and with only a few unappealing strawberry-flavoured Roses chocolates left to distract me; my mind is turning to 2015 and what it will bring. Like most people I’m also thinking about what I’ll resolve to do differently. Most professionals in the ‘life-improvement’ arena tend to think New Year’s…